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The Secret to Great Public Speaking (No, It's Not Confidence) | Jess Ekstrom | TEDxSugar Creek Women

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Warm-up Questions

What do you think is the real “secret” to great public speaking, if it’s not confidence?
In what situations do you need public speaking skills (work, school, family, social life)?
Do you think being an introvert makes public speaking harder, easier, or just different? Why?

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The Secret to Great Public Speaking (No, It's Not Confidence) | Jess Ekstrom | TEDxSugar Creek Women

Ice cream truck story + why public speaking matters (00:00 – 02:36)

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1. Why didn’t the speaker care how she looked or sounded when telling people about the ice cream truck?

Because she thought she was naturally confident
Because she was trying to impress the adults
Because she knew she had information people wanted
Because she was practicing for a school play

2. What example does the speaker use to show a limit of using AI for communication?

You can’t stop a real conversation to ask AI for the next line
AI can’t help you order ice cream
AI will always make you sound rude to your boss
AI can’t create an email at all

3. According to the speaker, why do many people fear public speaking so much?

Because it is a vulnerable and exposed experience
Because only extroverts can do it well
Because audiences are usually unfriendly
Because it is expensive to learn

The Secret to Great Public Speaking (No, It's Not Confidence) | Jess Ekstrom | TEDxSugar Creek Women

Perfection, authenticity, and the myth of the “impressive” speaker (02:36 – 05:53)

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1. What does the speaker say the “standard of perfection” does to our nerves?

It makes us speak faster and more clearly
It turns nerves into a “pressure cooker”
It makes our nerves disappear
It helps us remember every line perfectly

2. What did the speaker mistakenly think public speaking was about earlier in her career?

Convincing people she was worthy of attention
Entertaining people with jokes
Speaking without any preparation
Helping listeners solve a problem

3. What lesson does the speaker give after describing mistakes on stage (like stumbling or tripping)?

Only perfect speakers get standing ovations
Being relatable can strengthen connection
You should hide mistakes by speaking louder
Mistakes always ruin credibility

The Secret to Great Public Speaking (No, It's Not Confidence) | Jess Ekstrom | TEDxSugar Creek Women

The secret: spotlight vs lighthouse speakers (05:53 – 08:19)

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1. What is the speaker’s “secret” question for becoming a great public speaker?

How can I sound more confident?
What story will make me look impressive?
How do I avoid making any mistakes?
Where are you shining your light?

2. What does a “spotlight speaker” mainly focus on?

Giving short talks with no stories
Asking the audience many questions
What the audience needs
Public perception (how they look and sound)

3. According to the speaker, why does being a “lighthouse speaker” help with nervousness?

Because you try harder to be liked
Because you avoid speaking to real people
Because it becomes about helping, not perfection
Because you memorize more lines

The Secret to Great Public Speaking (No, It's Not Confidence) | Jess Ekstrom | TEDxSugar Creek Women

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1. What is the main message of the talk?

Extroverts are naturally better speakers than introverts
Public speaking is mostly about being entertaining
Confidence is the only skill that matters in public speaking
Great public speaking comes from focusing on serving the listener

2. Which idea does the speaker argue against?

Relatability can create connection
Public speaking can open doors to opportunities
Perfection can increase nervousness
You must be the center of attention to be a great speaker

3. In the speaker’s framework, what best describes a “lighthouse speaker”?

A speaker who shifts attention to what the listener needs
A speaker who avoids emotion and personal stories
A speaker who uses complicated vocabulary to sound smart
A speaker who talks mainly about their achievements

Discussion Questions

Discuss the ideas from this video

The Secret to Great Public Speaking (No, It's Not Confidence) | Jess Ekstrom | TEDxSugar Creek Women

Think about a time you spoke in front of others. Were you acting more like a “spotlight” or a “lighthouse”? What would you change next time?
Do you agree that focusing on the listener can reduce nervousness? Why or why not?
In your culture or workplace, what advice do people usually give about public speaking? Does it focus on the speaker or the audience?
What is one specific thing you could say in a presentation that shows the audience “they are important”?